Memorabilia

They rob us from the grieving process which they never invite my mother to pick and choose from her belongings because of jealousy and didn't let her heal in the right way . I would be perfectly fine with letting her inherit my grandmother belongings , of all the children that she had i knew she wouldn't let any other children have any memorabilia of the mother because she never though of her siblings as hers perhaps i didn't got something to remember by my grandma but i can comfort myself that i got most memories of her and spent most time with her, after all isn't that better then silver wear ?